I appreciate that its not my job to lift her up or fix her, but my concern is that this woman is responsible for looking after my S and I've been there when she wanted to run away from it all. I don't want her to go down the same track. I doubt very much that the OM even knows what she is like!!
I take your point on the issue of putting too much on my S - upon reflection, very bad move. I just want him to behave a little better for her. I don't suppose that there is much that I can do to rectify this now though is there?...
So many people have said to me that this isn't my problem and I understand that its not, but I just wanted to be the person I am and to support her where I can for the benefit of my S. Its difficult just to sit back and watch the woman who I spent 18 years of my life with fall apart.
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016
