I understand my wife is hurting, but I didn't fall off the wagon, I understand were she's got reasons for being the way she is, sometimes people use things to do what they really want, I just don't understand why can't they just say it thank you for your advice
But you posted this recently...
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recently I failed a drug test, I'm not making excuses I did something wrong it was a one time thing and it bit me in the end,
So yes, you fell off the wagon. Stop focusing on her, she is going to need time and you need to use this time as a gift. Why did you fail the drug test? You used, yes? You need to look VERY deep and find out why that was an acceptable gamble. What are you doing NOW to ensure you don't relapse even worse? Are you going to meetings?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
