Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 8

[ForGump]

MlCers mind is very mess up, they don't know what they want, they are in limbo and ambivalent, the more you will try to push them to make a decision or talk about R the more they will run away from you. You cannot speed up the process they have to go through. Take that time to work on you and build memories with your children.

SkyHigh, this is good to hear. I've been wondering if I should be tougher on my MLC/WW and set a deadline for the limbo we are in and/or file D right now. I'm on a razor's edge: one day I resolve to get tough and file, and another day I resolve to just keep the status quo, let her file if she wants to (she attempted once to file already, but changed her mind in the middle of it). The prevailing advice in the forum is to get tough. It's good to hear at least a different point of view. Still not sure what to do....