Sara, thanks for the vote of confidence. Yes, when we were dating I was completely convinced that I was her type. My mind was blown, totally blown, by how hot our chemistry felt. I thought, How could this be? How could it be SOOOOOO GOOD? Then we got married.

I have an athletic body type, I work out regularly, do outdoor sports, and am at a good weight. I have a good, steady full time job, and I am good with my kids and I totally pull my weight in housework. My W has been saying for a while now that I am the best husband she knows among all the husbands she knows, and recently she wrote me to say she loves me and will always loves me and cannot imagine a life without me yet she does not find me sexually attractive so she must divorce me.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final