One boundary that I think worked was when she was moving to her own place and I was insistent on D staying with her on her nights, I think that probably created a bit of a wake up call/reality check for her...
You mean initially she wanted your D to stay with you even though it was her turn to have her? Why would she want that?
Not an important issue I suppose but it piqued my curiosity....
Yes she wanted D to have stability and stay at the family home during the school week. At the time I suspected it was also so she can have that additional freedom to be with OM if she wanted too and not have to get up in the morning with D.
But that meant more responsibility on me - morning routine every day, having to be home by 9:30 so she can then go to her place etc. etc.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
