MLC W and preparing for S or D in the new year

[Gordie]

***She was also a SAHM who built up a lot of resentment and often had "suggestions" as to how she could be doing better than I. This is part of how the WW convinces herself that you aren't such a catch after all.***

Glad to hear I'm not the only one.

***But she wants you. And she wants the OM. We had this kind of dynamic too. It's her being indecisive. Don't worry about this right now because it's beyond your control.***

Yes, I was too focused on OM at the beginning but the last month we haven't discussed him at all.

***The OM is complete opposite to you. It's ALWAYS like this. If you don't drink, he's a drinker. If you don't like tattoos, he has full body tattoos. If you are against guns, he has racks full of guns. If you are successfully, he is most certainly a loser with a dead end job and no career. The OM is ALWAYS the low lying fruit picked from the lowest hanging branches. A bottom feeder who has no issues with flirting with married women.***

Gosh, you got it right...even the tattoos!

***Your sitch is progressing according to the script. Nothing out of the ordinary here***

Wow

***Your coach gave you the same advice I was given, and my sitch was almost EXACTLY like yours. Light touch in a subtle way is a powerful thing. You have the advantage over OM. You have shared history with her. You have shared kids. You know her better than he does. And, he's a kid himself! ***

I hope you're right.

***She's stringing you along as far as her saying she doesn't know if OM is interested. She knows he is. And they've fooled around. I can almost bet my money on that. Is that a deal breaker for you or can you look past it for an R?***

I hope you're wrong, but yes, it's forgiveable in my book.

***I'll be back later with more questions. ***

Hit me. I'm shocked you know my situation so well.