Coly's advice is spot on. If he wants space and time, then give it to him. While he's gone, continue working on you and focusing on your health.
You will know when you've had enough, i.e., it will be like a light switch that goes off. Whether you opt for filing for divorce or wish to continue leaving the door ajar and moving forward w/your life, we are here to support you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
