That sounds just like my story for the last 4 years,its amazing how so many story's are all most identicle,with the spouses having a lot of the same symptoms, just wish I found this great place sooner
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16