Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[ccgrrl]

Thanks for sharing that, Altair. I think you're right... an ultimatum will only feel like more "pressure" and contribute further to that "trapped" feeling.

I have zero interest in seeing other people, but at the same time, I feel shaky on that. If I were to somehow meet someone who took my needs into account and treated me well (or just plain liked me as a person!), I can't say if I would be able to resist him because it is very lonely right now and I really don't like who my H has become. I am hoping it's temporary and that when he ultimately transitions into his new self we will be compatible, but I am really hurt by what he is doing and I'm just not sure I will be able to forgive him down the line....