Update from the Twilight Zone:

So at the same time my W is asking for a S agreement, W has also suggested we plan a weekend getaway for just the two of us this spring.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving