That's me in the spotlight

[Coly23]

Hey Altair, shame about your friend being married but glad you know this fact and he made it clear to you!

About your H and the NC thing, yes I remember now that he is doing NC but I guess it is also for you because he isn't in a good place at the moment as you have experienced when you met on occasion. However, if you think about it all our WS's are asking for space and to a degree NC, your H has just asked for it in a more direct way. Does that mean you change what you are doing? I don't think so but you have to make that decision because it's your pain, your life that you have to live in limbo everyday.

Whether you decide to initiate D or continue to stand giving your H the space he has asked for we are here to support you. X