Help - Setting Boundaries, WW in EA - Thread #2

[Woke_Up]

Ok. So this day is turning into a doozy. This morning we was affectionate etc, wanted to cuddle me.

Later she wants me and SS to move bed out of spare room to make way for new bed. I refuse to have anything to do with it.

WW and as manhandle bed base downstairs (it's in 2 pieces, not that heavy). WW loses rag and throws pieces outside and says they can be chopped up. Then she proceeds to have a go at me for letting a 'potentially pregnant woman' do heavy lifting.

It is highly improbably that she is pregnant, not impossible. I said I wouldn't have anything to do with the her A, and that she was moving out due to A.

Anyway, quite a bit of belittling. Thoughts, should I have helped? I mean it gets her out of MBR? Or should I stick my ground and say no?

Am I picking the wrong battles? I don't even want a battle. I am just sick and tired of letting myself be a doormat. I told her that she just wanted a nice docile affectionate husband while she continued her A.