I've been sober for five years now, I've been in therapy for that amount of time too, the problem is that if I do or don't do what she approves there is hell to pay, I would do everything possible to keep my family, she has quicked me out of the house, we have talked that morning and I told her I didn't want to leave that if there is anything we can do to help our marriage we could do it, she said to get out, now I'm renting a room, and she denied ever telling me to leave,,, I don't know what to anymore, I've been texting her, asking to come back, the only time she really talks is when she wants or needs anything, I'm lost and confused on what to do, she has called the police to get me out before, I'm to old to be getting in trouble with the law, I want what's best for everyone, any advice