FG, you're not alone my friend. Ours followed a similar path (ravenous while dating, far, far less so when M) and once we had our D it fell off a cliff. Pre-BD it had actually been a long time since we'd had sex.
I also wonder if my M was built on the right things and if there ever was a foundation at all. I want to believe there was, but current state would point to that likely being wrong. Bleh
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
