I read all your threads a month ago and sometimes return to get inspiration.
My story in nutshell
Married 7 yrs Together 10 Oct 2015 WH admits to PA which I shortly discover is an EA/PA I was 6 months pregnant
Oct-Mar 16: WH continually breaks NC, I expose him and OW to their parents
April 16 (Unbeknownst to me) The PA resumes but OW dumps at end of April, I find out about all this in Jun 16
Jun 16 WH asks to piece but has dropped the D bomb a few times, even last week he said he's going to see a lawyer and file, meanwhile we are closing on a new house this month
A HUGE issue of mine is how I react when angry. While I've come a long way I still turn off WH with my words when I am angry and hurt. HE has barely spoke to me after our last argument. (3 weeks ago) Last night I took kids to see a movie and invited WH and he came. He is back to cold stone today and barely interacting. We're basically living an in house separation. Unfortunately I keep taking steps backwards for every step forward. I will now follow you around like some creepy fangirl to learn from you. lol My biggest mistake was being inconsistent with WH.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
