I hear you and honesty is important but sometimes we can tweek the truth "I am still hurt and I think forgiveness is the best action"..then your kids see strength, courage and discipline maybe you can work on forgiveness a little at a time..
if we forgive,,the load gets taken off us WE win he/they will still have consequences -no one can outrun karma but that is not for us to determine their consequences I would work on creating a cordial R..work on forgiving and letting go
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