Hello,I'm sorry your suffering this,but your in a good place here and there is lots of very wise people who will help you,most of us are going thru or have been thru simler situs,I'm not to good at advice,but it looks to me you need to just let go of the rope,the way he is ATM he won't listen,you can't reason with them,he is probly infatuated with the ow,I'm in the same boat as you,the more you run after him the more he will run away,some times you have to do the opposite of what you want to do,so I agree what the others have said let go,and look after you and your child,don't worry about him let him get on with it,you can't stop him he is only interested in him and his needs,but by letting go he will probly see what he has given up and miss it,then start thinking a bit different,I know its hard but you have to keep your chin up ,this is life these things happen,each day u will get stronger slowly but surely,and the peeps on here will look after you,your in good hands,
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