So, I might try a new 180. I'm thinking that I will continue to not call her (its going to be tough!) and ONLY allow her to talk about herself.
Might I suggest that you stay in contact in ways that do not necessarily include a conversation? Texting or emailing a funny video or joke is something that can make them feel you are thinking about them, but doesn't require getting into a big conversation. I know my 26 year old appreciates when I do that.
THAT I can do! I have been doing a study day today (why I've been online so much...distracting myself) and we've been sending things back and forth (she's a graphic designer and has catchup work today, so she's been online). You're right; much safer!
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16