Sounds like you are moving the right direction separate as much of the finances as possible
He may flip as soon as the move takes place he will be on his own and as was stated the MLCer has very poor skills in an adult world Most will become terrible parents as time moves on as well
so the more you cover the better
also the MC may become sympathetic with the MLC..they are good liars and convince the counselor of their choice-especially if it is his IC I witnessed that first hand
Im glad you are putting your life friends ect in place it will help you during this transition
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