CC

Sounds like you are moving the right direction
separate as much of the finances as possible

He may flip as soon as the move takes place
he will be on his own and as was stated the MLCer has very poor skills in an adult world
Most will become terrible parents as time moves on as well

so the more you cover the better

also the MC may become sympathetic with the MLC..they are good liars and convince the counselor of their choice-especially if it is his IC
I witnessed that first hand

Im glad you are putting your life friends ect in place
it will help you during this transition


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow