Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[Altair]

Hi cc,
sorry you are here. My MLCer up and decided how the separation was going to go-- got his own phone acct, bank acct, apt, everything, and left. Said he wanted us to see other people "to see how other women treat me" and when I said I didn't agree to this point because I was married he said "lots of people I know separated and see other people". It was never resolved (nor was anything else because he has basically disappeared from my life.) Like everyone else said he's probably going to do whatever he wants anyway so trying to control him might not work. But other people do employ ultimatums around here.