Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 8

[Surfer]

Sara,

I hope you get these health issues covered off and dealt with soon for your own peace of mind.

You will have bouts of strong feelings. I would find myself getting rushes of love and passion for my W if she simply spoke kindly. It's shocking and such is the nature of such abuse. This is the person who has hurt you most. It's kind of Stockholm Syndrome I think. The important thing is not to react to these feelings. You will get them, they will go though, give yourself time and be kind to you. Your feelings will be all over, but they will calm and the exercising will really help you - together with talking.

You are an inspiration - keep on going!

Surfer.