ForGump - I'm trying to figure out here what it is that you are "actually" wanting. Do you know yourself?

From what I've read over the last while you've pretty much accepted that a divorce is going to happen one way or the other. I'm not saying to go out and start cheering but does passively obstructing it actually get you anything other than perhaps a bit of petty revenge? (Sorry for being blunt there).

Anyway - give it some honest thought which I know you will do and I'd also like to suggest you check this piece of advice which bttrfly was so very kind to post on my own thread.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2723760#Post2723760

Keep strong and true to yourself my friend.

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