That's me in the spotlight

[Altair]

Coly,
We did speak for a hot minute about my health, breaking NC. Recall, I am not doing NC! H is. He doesn't want to talk to me. My only recourse is D, according to him, in that he needs space. He won't respond to a text. H said he wanted more space "for a little more"-- where I am at. What do i do if someone asks for a little more space?
Is DO SOMETHING DO NOTHING? maybe.
Re, coffee date.
Oh god he was lovely. handsome, smart, married with 2 year old. I immediately turned off all signals (he mentioned his wife within like 5 minutes, good married man) He's great! I can be his friend and collaborate, easy peasy. (goes off into corner cries over H)