Originally Posted By: PacLove
I feel sometimes this forum focuses too much on fixing ourselves, and not enough on what paths can be taken to actually "bust the divorce" and reconcile with your spouse - as opposed to preparing for the next relationship.


Can you explain this differently?

The forum (myself included) appears to give self-improvement as the main means to bust the divorce.

What are the paths are you talking about?

Can you give me some examples of paths?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final