I feel sometimes this forum focuses too much on fixing ourselves, and not enough on what paths can be taken to actually "bust the divorce" and reconcile with your spouse - as opposed to preparing for the next relationship.
Can you explain this differently?
The forum (myself included) appears to give self-improvement as the main means to bust the divorce.
What are the paths are you talking about?
Can you give me some examples of paths?
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final