Its a tough call when you get here trying to figure it all out If you have a M counselor maybe they can approach the question of fidelity during the separation but in all reality I believe Most MLCers have a plan when they leave the house and nothing will stop them especially not us Their word means nothing anyway
MLC is a difficult thing to travel though but the separation may help you deal with the pain of having an empty shell of a H around This is the most difficult time for the LBS to adjust and deal with the loss and change I know you and He are good friends but you will need women to talk to ,,a support group is helpful an individual counseling is beneficial If it is MLC, they lie and change they spend and become very different form the H we knew keep a watchful eye on all shared accounts or separate all account as they can blow through a lot even if they were level headed b4 keep posting and just try to take good care of you rest, sleep, exercise eat read and read the posts and books about MLC-
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