That's me in the spotlight

[Coly23]

Hey Altair, I'm glad you said yes to a drink/coffee with that work guy. It's good to keep your hand in with a bit of flirting!

With the whole male attention thing, I'm in the same boat as you in that I don't really get any at all! When I'm out with D she literally gets double takes which is quite funny to see and also makes me proud! To be honest with you I'm not bothered really and I'm not just saying that because I don't get any attention, I really dont need that complicating my life at the moment.

I'm not really sure what to think of your H. I know you commented in a previous post that you didn't know of any other sitch where the IC suggested to the WAS to go NC with the LBS, however I just remembered that this happened to Pinn. His W said it was suggested to her so she did not give Pinn any false hope however it made her mad that Pinn had also gone NC so it was a bit of a stalemate. In the end Pinn's wife started behaving like the LBS!

I must admit I get very confused with going dark and NC. If you feel it is benefiting you then that's a good thing however if it's driving you nuts like it did for me then how is that of benefit? When I read some of the really old threads the thinking on NC and gong dark is that it isn't supposed to be forever and at some point you can start turning up the dimmer switch to bring them into the light. I think at this stage in the game you've got to do what is right for you Altair and if you feel compelled to DO SOMETHING then maybe you should...

Have you got any GAL activities lined up for this weekend?