Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #6]

[Gordie]

I have been formulating my plan in my head but so far I have taken the "I'm not going to help you but I won't stand in the way" stance.

This has been my stance too. But once she went to the L, someone here hit me with a 2x4 and said I needed to detach emotionally, get my own L and treat it as a business deal, so that's what I'm doing. She gave you a proposal. In my mind, it's not enabling the D to give her a counter proposal, but you've got to do what you think is right.