Chris -- it stinks, but the reality is that even a text like the one you sent comes across as smothering pursuit to her at this point. It pushes her further away. You've got to pull back to where she really and truly is just a roommate, while you get your life on track and thriving. She'll notice and want to move closer or she won't. I'll be honest, I haven't seen many in-house sitches working out here for the LBS, but this will at least set you up to be and feel the best you can.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)