I have been formulating my plan in my head but so far I have taken the "I'm not going to help you but I won't stand in the way" stance. So I have let her bring her plan to me.
She has trouble w/ life skills ... with pulling together a plan ... so at this point I don't want to hand her a plan. I want her to struggle with it.
But I will keep giving your suggestion some thought....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final