Congratulations on making the right decision in your gut.

Why wait for her to make another proposal?

Do you have a lawyer so you can counter with your own proposal?

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving