its a huge pay cut but that does not matter to me right me.
Right on. You're doing the right thing.
Originally Posted By: Kid
maybe i am misinterpreting detached as WAW.
Based on your description, she doesn't sound like someone practicing DB to me. Detaching isn't about neglecting your partner, which is what she's doing. It's about not letting your partner's behavior drive your emotions up and down. You have had any physical affection in 18 months, and she's implied that you're not truly married. That doesn't sound like DB-ing to me. Sounds like someone who's given up on the marriage.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
