Hello all, Thank you for the responses, I truly appreciate it.
FG - the 2.5 weeks is not a done deal but will be implemented as soon as possible, its a huge pay cut but that does not matter to me right me.
Cristy - thank you for the thought provoking questions. I will self examine and may get in touch with you as well.
Sandi - Her stated reason for not leaving her job (i don't want to state what she does as this is the open internet), is that it is a "once-in-a-lifetime opportunity". I believe her. As for a work related EA or PA - she has stated in the past infidelity on either of our parts is grounds for divorce at once - and i believe that if she was having an A, she would tell me (lol, naive, i know).
I spent the last 4 nights going through as many of threads and posts in this forum - there are some heartbreaking stories and amazing resilient people. I wish i knew some of you in real life!
One quick question - the more i read, the more sense i get that she is the one who has detached from me , ie, she is following the DB playbook and maybe i am misinterpreting detached as WAW.
