Kid--

Yeah on 2nd thought 2.5 wks per month is not terrible.

Make sure you don't become totally spineless and subservient. Yes, be considerate and caring, but take time to be FUN and INTERESTING as a man. Think about the qualities your W saw in you when you were dating.

I wish you luck, man.

We need a fricken success story in this forum somewhere.

We're all dying here.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final