I read what someone posted on your thread that said "don't equate letting go with moving on....letting go doesn't mean giving up, but sometimes we truly need to let go in order to hold on"
I have noticed that I am slowly letting go and I am feeling okay with that decision. Yes it is not what I thought I would ever do, nor do I want to let go, but it is me giving up control and seeing what happens in this process. I am TERRIFIED that once I fully let go my H will not come back. But, to be honest he walked away a while ago I just didn't want to see it at the time.
I hear your sadness and hurt and I wish there was something someone could do or say to you to make you feel better. I am not someone who has a strong faith, but luckily you are. Turn to GOD and your faith when you have those moments of doubt, hopelessness and sadness.
You know that when your wife is sitting all alone in her new place that she is having moments of sadness and doubts. She will not admit to it but she is.
I love what Job said ..... so, while they are hitting brick walls and trying everything on God's green earth to stay happy, we are working on ourselves and we are working thru the process and not around it, i.e., like they are"
