Newbie Thread 6

[hawker]

Yep, thanks for the reminder NYGal....I don't want to ease her guilt...

I have had a good week...went hiking, worked out everyday and got in a few rounds of golf with friends!! The weather has been awesome...don't wanna go back to work! LOL

So my W's mom and sister and nephew are in town for a few days...back at the beginning of the month she said maybe I can bring nephew to see dogs? I said maybe, I'll think about it....

She never asked again and I never brought it up because I didn't know if this was more cake eating...so, just left it....

Her sister and I still chat, she sent me a xmas card of her family, we texted back and forth about Christmas plans, etc.

Yesterday she texted saying that she really wanted to see me when she was her but she didn't want to piss off her sister....she said this trip isn't as fun as all the ones she has had in the past. I said I was sorry and that I am sure it might be a little weird for you guys. She said it was weird and awkward and she didn't want to come in the first place but my W was persistant.

It kind of made me feel good that she wasn't having fun staying with her sis and SOW....I told her she was always welcome to come over but I knew she wouldn't....crazy how this affects not just us but all of our families.......I can still see how W is still selfish putting her wants above her sister and mom, I'm sure she didn't think it would be awkward for them or she just didn't care...

I'm gonna volunteer tonight at the dog shelter and hang out with friends after....

Thanks for the advice everyone...