That's a great post from Jack_Three_Beans, thanks for linking to it AP.

Some very wise words in there. I particularly like this:

"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans"

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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18