The last time I spoke to my wife was in July the day I found out about the hotel affair,I did blow my top and told her what I fought of her I wasent nice,after all she was cake eating,and I saw all the lies she had been telling me,she called the police and I was told to leave,that was the last time we spoke,I've just stayed away from her since no contact at all,,am I doing the right thing staying away no contact in any way,I know the affair is still on going and think it must of been going on at least 3 months before I found out,


Me 56 w52
M30 years
4x adult kids
W dad died/11
W wanted d 03/12
In-house sep 03/12
D 2014 I pushed
W Left on 02/16 I pushed
Pa on 07/16
Nc after 07/16
W Cakeating 15to16
Me doormat 12to16
Limbo 12to16