My WW and the Great Sandi2 Experiment

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Chris73:
I served 5 months in house. It was bad. I made lots of mistakes. Then I really kicked into the DB site way. I took over almost every function she served in our home. I ran the house the way I wanted it, got projects started and finished, developed stronger relationships with my kids, etc.

I made the mistake of trying to be friendly (as per my DB coach). It was tough and confusing. Draw clear lines and stick to them. If you don't do her laundry today, don't do it tomorrow.

If she is supposed to provide dinner tonight don't let her off the hook.

Most importantly - you need to stick to your commitments. You also, need to give the perception you are moving on too. I bought a motorcycle, injected myself into our S10 school, entertained, etc.

As Sandy says - In house is the ultimate in cake eating. Chances are she won't change her mind. So get ready for the next step. Do it on your terms.