Ok all. I REALLY need some guidance here. I know this might seem like a silly question but I'm very torn...

Kids are in bed, wife is out (very likely with OM2), and I'm trying to catch up on my laundry. There are clean clothes in the dryer. My kids clothes mixed with m W's clothes. I pull all the clothes out and start folding.

Suddenly, as I'm folding a pair of my W's underwear (sexy ones I might add, not granny panties!) I say to myself, "That b*tch is out right now cheating on me and here I am folding her underwear like an obedient cuckold!"

So I folded the rest of my kids' clothes and left hers unfolded.

This seems right to me. Justified. I'm certainly not going to fold her clothes when she moves out. Why make life easy for her when she's cheating on me?

But then I start thinking about doing the honorable thing. Acting with integrity and love. Being detached. This is petty. They're just clothes. It's my problem that I add an emotional emphasis because of whose clothes they are right?

Or maybe I'm just scared that this little act of rebellion will trigger more anger and resentment from her...

What's the appropriate action here?


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14