No one is telling you to give up. What you're doing is giving up CONTROL. Sounds like you're a godly man, so give your W to her. Concentrate on your actions and not on your W's.
What is your list of goals as per DB and the actions on how you are going to achieve those goals.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
