"I read DR all the way through to Part 3 and also the infidelity chapter. I then went back and focused on chapter 6 of DR and also read the LRT section of DB."
I thought as much. The reason why you haven't been able to come up with a cohesive plan is because you're jumping around and cherry picking those parts of the book and here that you think best suits you. Doesn't work that way. You have to really understand EVERYTHING first before coming up with a plan.
Do that first.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.