Right, and MY initial reaction to the BD was, "wah! wah! Please don't leave me. Let me try extra hard to romance you."
The problem is they aren't interested in that from you right now... it's seen as desperate and too little too late. You might feel better but it really doesn't do anything for the R. Until the OM is out of the Picture you really can't compete.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17