Slowly losing my wife (2)

[ForGump]

[quote=ForGump]I don't think my path back to a loving wife lies through housework.

I agree. The focus shouldn't be about doing specific house chores. It should be on being mature and independent. Is money the only reason she feels dependent on you? If she made a similar amount of money as you, would you then have a fairly equal power partnership?

The power/dependency dynamic may not be the only issue in your marriage, but I think it's an important one.