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I'm still all over the place from the news (a week? Two weeks ago?) of WH and the baby.

I've decided I want to go back to dance classes (something I was doing before and when I met H). So I've checked out a few drop in classes over the next two weeks.

I'm doing mainly ballet, with a bit of yoga and flamenco thrown in. I'll see how it goes.

Then if I can line up some social events, then that's a pretty packed schedule over the next few weeks.

Hopefully that should pass some time and help even things out a bit.

WH is travelling back here Saturday, after working in the States with pregnant OW the past couple months.

I think he might be in touch to discuss the mortgage.

Meantime, I'm trying to work on shoring up my financial situation best as. I realise it's a huge pressure in my life (and it's always been) as I'm self employed and have never really earned very much at all. So maybe this coming year I concentrate on making myself more financially secure, as it's a huge vulnerability at the moment.

I'm working on my tax return as I write, so that's going to highlight pretty sharply how things are for me and what I need to work on.

I'm terrified.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017