Yes, I bought DR 8 months ago, read through it over the course of a month and started implementing things from the book. I read through sandi's rules daily to make sure I'm staying on track with what I'm doing.
She is angry living in the same house as me but has nowhere else to go...she only interacts with me if she has to and it's usually tense.
She has told me "the marriage is over, it was over long ago, I am going through with the divorce, the only reason I'm still here is because I have no other choice right now"
Made it through FOC conference, kids did not have to go fortunately, but they are still unaware of the impending divorce.
Next is pre-trial conference with the judge on 1-10-17, next week.
I'm positive even with everything that's happening, mentally and physically doing well, working out, going out once a week and extremely busy with kids activities.
My wife says she's going back to counseling, hopefully that helps her because she is obviously struggling with everything and she has told me that it just irritates her that I can be "Mr. Positive" with everything that is happening. I've not been "Mr. Positive" in the past.
H:44 W:43 M:17 S:15 S:14 S:12 W mentions divorce 8/2015 W files divorce 10/2016 D will be final 4/2017 Living together & will for a while