I'm sorry that you and your boys are sick. I hope it's not that nasty bug going around that lingers for weeks on end. If you don't see any improvement in a couple of days...then trot yourselves off to the doctor for antibiotics. It's the only thing that will kill the germ.
As for the swearing...I'm sure you both were very surprised as to what came out of his mouth. He's been very cautious during his anger periods and this time it slipped out. It happens and hopefully it won't happen again. He was very frustrated about the entire conversation about the dog's bed.
As for the Christmas stuff...not surprised about the July response. LOL! He does love the decorations and maybe they remind him of happier times...but I know you'll be taking them down once you feel better.
I wanted to just say that your advice to others has been spot on. You've been giving excellent advice to others. Thank you!
Feel better soon!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
