Thanks Andrew and PatMan! I'm sure I will be asking tons of questions.
Just got done with a 60 min meditation session at the local Buddhist temple. Now I'm sipping bourbon waiting for my train home. Was hoping to get home in time to read to my son before bed but it's not going to happen. I think I need to learn how to detach from my kids as well as my W. With all this going on I've been hyper sensitive to spend as much time with them as possible. I guess as a way of strengthening the bond before things get worse. But I've been a great dad for 8 years now and I can't stress about missing bedtimes. My W misses them twice a week, every week. I know my kids love me.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14