Do I need to bring up setting boundaries of seeing other people while separated? She obviously is talking to someone, but said they don't do anything anymore. I feel like if I am separated while I love her, I miss being with someone who loves me back and would love to go out with someone or hookup. I know that's probably not appropriate but we all have our needs. Just not sure if I should bring it up. I am pretty sure our marriage is over, as she told me that yesterday and today she said she doesn't ever think she was in love with me. That's always great to hear but at least she is telling me something.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house