Laowai -- suck it up and go to the gym. You'll get a parking spot, and everyone in there looks somewhat ridiculous. Get going. You'll feel so much better when you start doing something FOR YOU instead of just laying back and being life's and your wife's punching bag. I promise. The key is to overcome the inertia that's keeping you in the muck, get going, and it will steamroll benevolently from there. We are all pulling for you. Kick some ass.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
