Thank you cadet,happy new year my friend,you all do a great job,its good to have help when your having this in your life BTW I'm 56 wife/alien is 52, just don't understand what we have done to get put through the shredder like this,
Just so you know my very first post here on DB says something like
I think I got hit by a sledgehammer, so you are not alone in the way you feel.